Things to remember
Maybe ten people read this blog. One of them is my best friend, another is one of my dad, probably with the help of some translation software. And that’s fine. I’m not quite ready to put this out into the world in a bigger way. Whoever finds it, finds it. For now, this place remains […]
Words of love
I still can’t comprehend that a whole year has passed. Every moment of that cruel night and day is so vividly etched in my mind, it feels like it happened just yesterday. I can feel the weight of the phone in my hand, the moment I could no longer bear to watch your suffering and […]
Homesick
Once again, I rushed into saying something, like how I handled the second garage sale without any big emotional rollercoaster. And it’s true, I got through it all with a kind of numb detachment. Then my friend arrived, the one who now lives in New York and I met her here. She flew home to […]
Dating in NYC
I usually don’t waste much time and believe in fighting fire with fire, so I jumped into dating pretty quickly in New York. There’s a Hungarian girl I met here who warned me to prepare for the worst, because according to her, no one here wants anything serious, everyone’s always in a rush, barely has […]
A 23 kilogram suitcase
I keep coming across this trend on TikTok and Instagram, a girl just standing there, staring into the camera, while this line pops up in the background: “What am I supposed to be afraid of? I packed 20 years into a single 23 kilo suitcase.” Moments like this make me feel old, and honestly, a little […]
People of New York
My newly built connection with the people of New York slowly, very slowly restores my faith in humanity. Just gratitude. My heart is overflowing. How come in all the noise and chaos I found this.
One more thing
So, remember when I said in a previous post that everything I was afraid of has already happened? Well, I might’ve been exaggerating a bit. Turns out, I’m basically more like Steve Jobs, there’s always “one more thing.” I came to New York the way most people probably do, full of dreams and goals, plans […]
Flying with dogs from Budapest to New York
The most-asked question I face nowadays is how my two aussies, Eliott and Ellise, made it from Budapest to New York. Well… in short? Through a brutal bureaucratic nightmare.For anyone in the same boat, planning to relocate their pups to the US, I highly recommend starting that early. You’ll need the time. First off, unfortunately, when we […]
Building a circle from scratch
There’s this app where you meet 5 strangers. I went to one of these events the other night, it was an interesting experience. It’s important for me to be able to generate genuine curiosity about people, even if they’re not my patients, because unfortunately i had troubles with that for a long time. People come […]
The biggest redflag ever: It’s just a dog
Some people asked me why I spent so much money just to bring my dog with me when I moved to New York from Budapest. As if he were just a dog. As if their life and our bond could be measured in money. I could have left without them, I could have made things easier […]